Hey there! Have you ever looked in the mirror and wished your straight hair had a bit more bounce, a little more personality? Maybe you’ve seen guys rocking amazing curly hairstyles and thought, “How do they do that?” Well, you’re not alone! The trend of curly hair for men is bigger than ever, and it’s not just for those born with natural coils.
Getting curly hair might seem like a mystery, but I’m here to tell you it’s totally achievable for most hair types, with the right techniques and a little patience. Whether you have slightly wavy hair you want to enhance or straight hair you dream of transforming, this guide is packed with practical tips and tricks. I’ve gathered the best methods, from simple styling hacks to more permanent solutions, to help you achieve the curly look you’ve always wanted in 2025. Let’s dive in and unlock your hair’s full curly potential!
1. Growing Out Your Hair: Patience is Key!
This might sound simple, but it’s often the most crucial step for many men looking to get curly hair, especially if you have naturally wavy or slightly curly hair that just needs to be “unleashed.” When your hair is too short, its natural curl pattern might not have enough length or weight to form properly. Think of it like a spring – it needs space to coil!
Why it works: Many hair types that appear straight when short will actually show a natural wave or curl as they grow longer. The weight of the hair helps the natural curl pattern to become more defined. If you’ve always kept your hair super short, you might be surprised to find hidden waves and curls waiting to emerge!
How to do it:
- Commit to the grow-out: This means resisting the urge for frequent haircuts, especially on the top. Aim for at least 4-6 inches of length, or even more, depending on your desired curl type.
- Manage the awkward phase: As your hair grows, there will likely be an “awkward phase” where it doesn’t quite sit right. This is where hats, headbands, or even a little bit of styling product can be your best friends.
- Get regular trims (strategically): While you’re growing it out, you still need to trim the ends every 8-12 weeks to remove split ends and keep your hair healthy. Ask your barber to “dust” the ends, meaning just taking off the smallest amount possible. This helps maintain the hair’s integrity as it gets longer. For expert advice on managing your hair’s journey, remember that a great barber can make all the difference. Check out why every man needs a great barber to learn more about how they can guide you through this process.
“Patience isn’t just about waiting; it’s about what you do while you’re waiting. For curly hair, it means nurturing your hair as it grows.”
2. Mastering the Wash & Go Method
Once you have some length, the “wash and go” method is your best friend for enhancing any natural curl or wave you might have. This method focuses on letting your hair dry naturally while using specific products to encourage curl formation.
The Steps:
1. Wash Your Hair (Gently!): Use a sulfate-free, moisturizing shampoo. Sulfates can strip your hair of its natural oils, leading to frizz and dryness, which are enemies of good curls.
2. Condition Deeply: Apply a generous amount of curl-friendly conditioner. Detangle your hair gently with your fingers or a wide-tooth comb while the conditioner is in. This is crucial to avoid breaking up curl clumps later. Rinse most, but not all, of the conditioner out. Leaving a little in can help with moisture and definition.
3. Apply Leave-In & Styling Products: While your hair is still soaking wet (this is key!), apply a leave-in conditioner, followed by a curl cream or gel.
- Leave-in conditioner: Provides moisture and helps with detangling.
- Curl cream: Enhances natural curl patterns and reduces frizz.
- Gel: Provides hold and definition.
- Application technique: Rake the products through your hair evenly, then gently “scrunch” your hair upwards towards your scalp. This encourages the curls to form.
4. Hands Off! (Mostly): Resist the urge to touch or comb your hair as it dries. The more you touch it, the more frizz you’ll create.
5. Air Dry or Diffuse: Let your hair air dry completely. If you’re in a hurry, use a diffuser on a low heat and low speed setting (more on this later!). Once dry, if you used gel, your hair might feel a bit crunchy (“cast”). Gently scrunch out the crunch to reveal soft, defined curls.
Product Recommendations:
- Sulfate-free shampoo and conditioner
- Leave-in conditioner
- Curl cream or mousse
- Stronghold gel (for more definition)
3. The Power of Braids, Twists, and Buns
For men with straighter hair looking for temporary curls, or those with slight waves wanting more definition, heatless styling methods are a game-changer. These techniques involve manipulating your hair into a curly shape while it’s damp and letting it dry that way.
Methods:
Braids:
- How-to: On damp hair, divide your hair into sections. The more sections you create, the smaller and more defined your curls will be. Braid each section tightly. You can do a few large braids for loose waves or many small braids for tighter curls.
- Best for: Creating waves or loose curls, especially if you have longer hair.
- Overnight: Leave the braids in overnight. In the morning, gently undo them and separate the curls with your fingers.
Two-Strand Twists:
- How-to: Similar to braids, but you only use two strands of hair. Divide your hair into sections, take two strands from each section, and twist them around each other tightly.
- Best for: Creating more defined, spiraling curls, especially for medium to long hair.
- Overnight: Twist on damp hair, let dry overnight, then unravel.
Hair Buns/Pineapples:
- How-to: For a looser, wavy look, gather your damp hair into one or more loose buns on top of your head. A “pineapple” involves gathering all your hair into a high, loose ponytail or bun on top of your head to preserve curls overnight.
- Best for: Adding volume and a gentle wave, or preserving existing curls while you sleep.
- Overnight: Secure with a soft hair tie or scrunchie (avoid tight ones that can leave creases).
Tips for Heatless Curls:
- Start with damp, not soaking wet, hair. If it’s too wet, it will take too long to dry, and the curls might not hold.
- Apply a light styling product like a mousse or curl cream before braiding/twisting to help the curls hold.
- Ensure hair is completely dry before undoing the braids/twists/buns. If it’s still damp, the curls will fall out quickly.
- Use satin or silk pillowcases to reduce frizz when sleeping with these styles in.
4. Perms for Men
If you have naturally straight hair and want to achieve a lasting curly look without daily styling, a perm might be the answer. A perm (short for “permanent wave”) is a chemical treatment that changes the structure of your hair to create curls or waves.
How it works: A special solution is applied to your hair, which has been wrapped around rods of various sizes. This solution breaks down the protein bonds in your hair. A neutralizer is then applied, which rebuilds these bonds in the new, curled shape.
Types of Perms for Men:
- Classic Perm: Creates uniform, bouncy curls. Rod size determines curl tightness.
- Spot Perm: Only certain sections of hair are permed, often used to add volume or specific curl patterns.
- Spiral Perm: Uses longer, vertical rods to create long, cascading spiral curls, often for longer hair.
- Body Wave Perm: Uses larger rods to create loose waves and add body, rather than tight curls.
Pros of a Perm:
- Long-lasting: Curls can last for several months (3-6 months), depending on your hair type and how quickly your hair grows.
- Low daily effort: Once permed, your hair will naturally dry into curls, reducing daily styling time.
- Dramatic transformation: Can completely change your look.
Cons of a Perm:
- Chemical process: Involves chemicals that can potentially damage hair if not done correctly or if hair is already compromised.
- Maintenance: Requires specific aftercare products and routines to keep curls healthy and defined.
- Cost: More expensive than daily styling products.
- Grow-out phase: As your hair grows, the new growth will be straight, creating a line where the perm ends.
Important Considerations:
- Always go to a professional barber or stylist for a perm. This is not a DIY job! A skilled professional will assess your hair type, recommend the right perm solution and rod size, and ensure proper application to minimize damage. They can also advise on the best cut to go with your new curls. Don’t underestimate the value of a professional; visiting a barbershop is more than just a haircut – it’s about expert care.
- Hair health: Your hair needs to be in good condition to handle a perm. If it’s damaged, dry, or recently bleached, a perm might not be suitable.
- Aftercare: You’ll need to invest in sulfate-free shampoos, moisturizing conditioners, and curl-specific styling products to maintain your perm.
- Contrast with Straightening: While perms curl hair, there are also chemical treatments that straighten hair. If you’re considering any major texture change, it’s good to understand the options. You can learn more about the difference between permanent vs. temporary hair straightening treatments to understand the spectrum of chemical alterations.
5. Using Curl-Enhancing Products
Even if you have natural waves or have just grown out your hair, the right products are essential for defining, holding, and nourishing your curls. This is where the magic happens!
Key Product Categories:
Sulfate-Free Shampoo & Conditioner:
- Why: Sulfates can strip natural oils, leading to dry, frizzy curls. Look for “sulfate-free” and “moisturizing” on the label.
- Benefit: Keeps hair hydrated and helps curls clump together.
Leave-In Conditioner:
- Why: Adds an extra layer of moisture and protection, and helps with detangling.
- How to use: Apply to damp hair after washing, before other styling products.
Curl Cream/Lotion:
- Why: Designed to enhance natural curl patterns, provide light hold, and reduce frizz without making hair crunchy.
- How to use: Apply evenly to damp hair, scrunching upwards.
Hair Mousse:
- Why: Provides volume and definition with a lighter hold than gel. Great for fine or wavy hair that gets weighed down easily.
- How to use: Dispense a golf-ball-sized amount into your palm, distribute evenly through damp hair, scrunching.
Hair Gel:
- Why: Offers stronger hold and definition, especially for tighter curls or if you want your curls to last all day. Can create a “cast” that you scrunch out once dry.
- How to use: Apply to wet hair (gel loves water!). Rake through, then scrunch.
Hair Oil/Serum:
- Why: Adds shine, reduces frizz, and provides moisture, especially for dry ends.
- How to use: Apply a small amount to dry or nearly dry hair, focusing on the ends. Be careful not to use too much, or your hair might look greasy.
My Pro Tip: Experiment! Your hair is unique, and what works for one person might not work for another. Try different combinations of products until you find your perfect curl cocktail. Start with a small amount and add more if needed.
6. Diffusing for Defined Curls: Heat, But Smart Heat
While air-drying is ideal for natural curl formation, sometimes you don’t have hours to wait, or you want extra volume. That’s where a diffuser comes in. A diffuser is an attachment for your hairdryer that disperses the air gently, preventing frizz and encouraging curl definition.
How to Use a Diffuser:
- Prep Your Hair: After washing and applying your curl-enhancing products (curl cream, gel), gently squeeze out excess water with a microfiber towel or old t-shirt (regular towels can cause frizz!).
- Set Your Dryer: Attach the diffuser to your hairdryer. Set the dryer to a low heat and low speed setting. High heat and strong airflow are the enemies of frizz-free curls.
- Cupping Method: Gently cup sections of your hair with the diffuser bowl, lifting them towards your scalp. Hold for a few seconds, then move to the next section. Avoid moving the diffuser around too much while it’s in a section; let the air do its work.
- Root Lift: For extra volume at the roots, gently place the diffuser on your scalp and lift your hair upwards.
- Dry Partially or Fully: You can diffuse until your hair is completely dry, or just until it’s about 80% dry and let it air dry the rest of the way.
- Scrunch the Cast: If you used gel, your hair might feel crunchy once dry. Gently “scrunch out the crunch” with your hands to soften your curls and reveal bouncy, defined spirals.
Benefits of Diffusing:
- Faster drying time compared to air drying.
- Adds volume, especially at the roots.
- Helps set and define curl patterns.
- Minimizes frizz when done correctly.
7. The Sponge/Brush Method
If you have shorter hair (typically 1-3 inches) and want to create defined coils or twists, the hair sponge or twist brush is a fantastic tool. This method is especially popular for creating a textured, coily look on naturally kinky or tightly curled hair types.
What You’ll Need:
- A hair sponge (also known as a curl sponge or magic twist sponge) or a twist brush. These have holes or patterns that create the coils.
- A curl-defining cream or gel.
How to Use the Hair Sponge/Brush:
- Damp Hair: Start with slightly damp hair. It shouldn’t be soaking wet, but not completely dry either.
- Apply Product: Apply a generous amount of curl-defining cream, pomade, or gel evenly throughout your hair. This helps create the hold and definition.
- Circular Motions: Take your hair sponge or twist brush and gently rub it over your hair in small, circular motions. Do not press hard.
- Consistent Direction: Always rub in the same direction (e.g., clockwise or counter-clockwise) to create uniform coils.
- Continue Until Coils Form: Continue rubbing for 5-15 minutes, or until small, distinct coils begin to form. The longer you rub, the more defined your coils will become.
- Air Dry: Let your hair air dry completely. Avoid touching the coils too much once they’re formed to prevent frizz.
Benefits of the Sponge/Brush Method:
- Quick and easy for shorter hair.
- Creates defined, uniform coils.
- No heat required.
- Great for adding texture and style to short hair.
8. Diet and Hydration
While external methods are crucial for styling, the health of your hair starts from within. What you eat and how much water you drink significantly impact your hair’s strength, elasticity, and ability to hold a curl.
Key Nutrients for Healthy Hair:
Protein: Hair is primarily made of protein (keratin). Ensure you’re getting enough from sources like lean meats, fish, eggs, beans, lentils, and nuts.
- Why it matters: Strong hair strands are less prone to breakage and can form better curls.
Omega-3 Fatty Acids: Found in fatty fish (salmon, mackerel), flaxseeds, chia seeds, and walnuts.
- Why it matters: Nourish hair follicles and promote a healthy scalp, which is essential for healthy hair growth.
Vitamins A, C, E:
- Vitamin A: Found in carrots, sweet potatoes, and spinach. Helps produce sebum, the natural oil that moisturizes your scalp.
- Vitamin C: Found in citrus fruits, bell peppers, and strawberries. Important for collagen production and iron absorption.
- Vitamin E: Found in nuts, seeds, and leafy greens. An antioxidant that promotes blood circulation to the scalp.
- Why it matters: These vitamins protect hair from damage and support overall hair health.
B Vitamins (especially Biotin): Found in eggs, almonds, whole grains, and avocados.
- Why it matters: Biotin is often linked to hair growth and strength.
Iron: Found in red meat, spinach, and lentils.
- Why it matters: Iron deficiency can lead to hair loss. Healthy iron levels support oxygen delivery to hair follicles.
Zinc: Found in pumpkin seeds, oysters, and beef.
- Why it matters: Essential for hair tissue growth and repair, and keeps oil glands around follicles working properly.
Hydration:
Drink plenty of water! Dehydration can lead to dry, brittle hair that struggles to maintain its curl pattern. Aim for at least 8 glasses of water a day.
- Why it matters: Well-hydrated hair is more elastic, less prone to frizz, and more likely to form beautiful, bouncy curls.
“Your hair is a reflection of your internal health. Feed it well, and it will flourish.”
If you’re concerned about hair health or even hair loss, a good diet is a preventative measure. You can learn more about how to prevent balding effectively and other hair loss solutions that emphasize overall hair wellness.
General Tips for Maintaining Curly Hair
Getting curls is one thing; keeping them healthy and looking great is another! Here are some universal tips for all curly-haired guys:
Moisture is Your Master: Curly hair tends to be drier than straight hair because the natural oils from your scalp struggle to travel down the curves of the hair shaft. Always prioritize moisture with leave-in conditioners, curl creams, and occasional deep conditioning treatments.
Be Gentle: Curly hair is more fragile and prone to breakage.
- Detangle Wet: Always detangle your hair when it’s wet and coated with conditioner, using your fingers or a wide-tooth comb.
- Avoid Brushing Dry Hair: Brushing dry curls will break up the curl pattern and lead to a frizzy mess.
Sleep Smart: Invest in a silk or satin pillowcase. Cotton pillowcases can absorb moisture from your hair and create friction, leading to frizz and tangles. A silk pillowcase allows your hair to glide smoothly, preserving your curls.
Regular Trims: Even if you’re growing out your hair, regular trims (every 8-12 weeks) are essential to remove split ends and maintain hair health. Split ends can travel up the hair shaft and cause more damage.
Protect from Heat: If you must use heat tools (like a diffuser), always use a heat protectant spray and keep the heat setting low.
Rethink Your Towel: Ditch the rough terry cloth towel. Instead, use a microfiber towel or an old cotton t-shirt to gently blot and scrunch excess water from your hair. This reduces frizz significantly.
Scalp Health Matters: A healthy scalp is the foundation for healthy hair. Ensure your scalp is clean and moisturized. If you experience issues like dandruff, it’s important to address them. You can find useful information on dandruff symptoms, causes, and treatments to maintain a healthy environment for your hair to thrive.
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Getting Curly Hair
Achieving those dream curls involves not just knowing what to do, but also what not to do. Here are some common pitfalls I see guys fall into:
- Over-Washing: Washing your hair too frequently, especially with harsh shampoos, can strip your hair of its natural oils, leading to dryness and frizz. For most curly hair types, washing 2-3 times a week is plenty. Some even go longer!
- Using the Wrong Products: Not all hair products are created equal, especially for curly hair. Products with sulfates, silicones (non-water-soluble ones), and heavy alcohols can dry out your hair and cause buildup. Always check ingredient lists for curl-friendly formulations.
- Brushing Dry Curls: This is probably the biggest no-no for curly hair. Brushing dry curls will instantly break up the curl clumps, leading to a halo of frizz and a loss of definition. Only detangle when wet and conditioned.
- Ignoring Scalp Health: A healthy scalp is the foundation for healthy hair growth. If your scalp is flaky, itchy, or excessively oily, it can hinder hair growth and overall hair health. Make sure to cleanse your scalp regularly and address any issues like dandruff.
- Not Being Patient Enough: Hair growth takes time. Chemical treatments take time. Learning how to style your curls takes time. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t see immediate results. Consistency and patience are key.
- Using Too Much Heat: While diffusing can be helpful, excessive heat styling (especially direct heat from a blow dryer without a diffuser, or flat irons/curling irons) can cause significant damage, making your hair brittle and less able to hold a curl. Embrace heatless methods whenever possible.
- Touching Hair Too Much While Drying: Once you’ve applied products and scrunched, try to leave your hair alone as it air dries or diffuses. Every time you touch it, you disrupt the curl pattern and invite frizz.
When to See a Professional Barber
While many of these tips can be done at home, a professional barber or stylist can be an invaluable resource on your curly hair journey.
Consider seeing a professional when:
- You’re considering a perm: As I mentioned, this is not a DIY job. A professional will ensure your hair is healthy enough, apply the chemicals correctly, and give you the best results.
- You need a strategic cut: A good barber knows how to cut curly hair to enhance its natural pattern, reduce bulk, and create a flattering shape. They can also advise on the best length for your curl type.
- You’re struggling with frizz or dryness: They can recommend professional treatments and products tailored to your specific hair needs.
- You’re in the “awkward grow-out phase”: A barber can give you a “transition” cut that makes the grow-out period more manageable and stylish.
- You want personalized product recommendations: With so many products on the market, a barber can cut through the noise and suggest what will work best for your hair.
Remember, a great barber isn’t just about a haircut; they’re hair care experts who can guide you to your best hair. Find out more about why every man needs a great barber and how they can help you achieve your hair goals.
Conclusion
Getting curly hair for men in 2025 is more accessible than ever, whether you’re looking to enhance your natural waves or create a whole new look. From letting your hair grow out and mastering the wash-and-go, to exploring heatless styling or even considering a professional perm, there are multiple paths to achieving the curls you desire.
Remember that patience, the right products, and a commitment to hair health are your best allies. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different techniques and products to find what works best for your unique hair. And when in doubt, never hesitate to consult a professional barber – they are truly the masters of hair transformation!
